Valentine’s Day, A.K.A. National Sex Day, is celebrated on February 14th. Why force love on one day, how about making any other day of the year as your Valentine’s Day? If you’re not ready to break from the traditional Valentine’s Day, then Cheers! Let’s enjoy a chocolate Cherry Cha Cha Cocktail. Chocolate Covered Cherry Cha Cha is a wonderful cocktail that you love that has both cherry and chocolate in it. The recipe is available at the end the post.
There is a holiday coming up called Valentine’s Day. Love it or hate it there is no escaping the hearts and Cupid’s that pop up in the stores. In fact, we see this red decor love fest displays right after Christmas. The hearts and cupids are all around in the stores reminding you about February 14th.
What is Valentines Day? A day to profess your love to someone with chocolate and roses? Let’s not forget all the lingerie that men buy their sweethearts. My sister calls Valentine’s Day national Sex Day. Why? Well give a woman roses, chocolate and sexy panties, and they expect to get lucky. So as a woman, we are expected to shave our legs, don these panties and give our men this wild night of passion. All because of some little Cupid with an arrow says it is Valentine’s Day. In reality, that scenario just feels forced.
I don’t know about you, but sex feels better when wild and passionate and unplanned. When it’s planned nothing seems to go right, either you are so stressed out, feels routine and boring, you’re just simply not in the mood. Now, these chocolates and fancy panties are supposed to make all that stress and not feeling in the mood stop for 20 minutes of sex? I say celebrate Valentine’s Day on a day you’re not expecting roses, like March 3rd. Why? Because it isn’t forced, and if it is, sex that day it would be mind-blowing!
Pick a day and own it, be the sex goddess and enjoy YOUR Valentine’s Day.
Now some of you will say, “but I have kids”. Yeah, I get it, wild, passionate, spontaneous sex with kids might not work. Well, when the kids are in bed, go to your room, put on some hooker shoes and surprise your man.
Tonight you are not a mom, instead, you are some wild and exotic woman turning hour man on. Don’t come up with an excuse like, “I can’t wear those shoes”. Look, you’re not walking in them, just put on, sit on the bed and call him in. If you do it right honey, those shoes will never see pavement. It’s called the art of illusion. If your man asks what you’re doing, say “I’m giving you a surprise for Valentine’s Day”. When doing something unexpected and out the normal; you’d be surprised at how much you really enjoy it. It’s good to step out the little box we are in. It is all about the illusion, own some shoes that will never see pavement!
Bottom line is, sometimes it’s better if we call the shots when comes to National Sex Day, oops I mean Valentine’s Day. Don’t settle for the forced gratuity of pleasure in exchange for flowers and chocolate on February 14th. Pick a day and make that your Valentine’s Day. Pretend you are a teenager and do something out the ordinary and most of all, make something you enjoy. Trust me, tune into your inner sexy goddess, we all have it within us, and own Valentine’s Day, on any day you want to celebrate it on.
Chocolate and cherries in a bubbly cocktail! Oh, My!
Ok so maybe you’re not quite that ready to break from Valentine’s Day Traditions. That is okay, but the thought is in the back of your head, and that is good.
So let’s relax now with a wonderful cocktail, the Chocolate Cherry Cha Cha:
What you’ll need:
- 1 ounce of Cheery Rum
- 1/2 ounce of Whipped Cream Vodka
- 1 ounce of Chocolate Vodka
- 1 ounce of Club Soda
Meet the Author
“Pour yourself a drink, put on some lipstick, and pull yourself together.” – Elizabeth Taylor
Deanna Samman (Dee) is a native to Pittsburgh, living in Cleveland, OH. Her first blog, Seduction in the Kitchen, has built Dee’s appearance on the internet in the blogging world. When she discovered she had a niche for lifestyle and relationship posts, she decided to create a Wine and Lipstick, a blog meant for bringing single women together over cocktails. We are honored to have Dee as a guest author and hope you look into her blogs in the future!